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Kids Who Spend More Time Outdoors Have Better Vision

Sunday, February 1st, 2009

Kids who spend more time outside — and away from the television set — are less likely to develop myopia, the inability to see things clearly at a distance.

The new report, from researchers in Boston, doesn’t determine whether too much indoor activity actually causes poor eyesight. And even if it does, researchers haven’t pinpointed what the exact mechanism might be.

Still, “it would seem prudent to encourage outdoor activities — not necessarily sports — for all growing children and young adults in order to reduce the progression of myopia,” said Howard C. Howland, a professor of neurobiology and behavior at Cornell University.

About a third of Americans suffer from myopia, said study author Jane Gwiazda, director of research at The New England College of Optometry. The rates are much higher in some parts of Asia.

The condition seems to be caused by both genetics and the environment, Gwiazda said. The condition is more common in people who engage in a lot of “near work” due to their jobs, she said.

The study authors gave questionnaires to the parents of 191 children who were at an average age of 13.3 years. Among other things, the researchers asked about the children’s time spent using the computer, reading for pleasure and watching TV.

The children’s eyesight was tested annually.

The findings were published in the January issue of Optometry and Vision Science.

The children who developed myopia — also known as nearsightedness — spent less time in outdoor activities, an average of 8.3 hours a week compared to 12.6 hours among the other children.

Those with myopia also watched more television (12.5 hours vs. 8.4 hours a week).

What’s going on? “One possibility is that all the hours spent viewing objects at a distance rather than up close, as happens outdoors, provides a ’stop’ signal to block myopia progression,” Gwiazda said. “Outdoor exposure also may be beneficial, because sunlight causes the pupil to constrict, resulting in a larger depth of focus — the range in which objects appear clear — and less image blur that’s associated with myopia development.”

In other words, the eye may see more clearly outside in the sunlight and avoid developing myopia.

Looking at things farther away may be another benefit of outdoor activities. “We know a great deal about what causes myopia in animals, including primates,” said Howland. “Images that are focused behind the retina cause the eye to grow in length, making the animal more myopic. Generally speaking, one can prevent animals from becoming myopic if they are provided with sufficient opportunity to see distant objects.”

In popular culture, bookworms and nerds are often depicted as wearing glasses. Some studies have indeed shown a connection between heavy reading and myopia, Gwiazda said. But the new research doesn’t confirm that link.

“In our study, children with more hours of outdoor activity do not necessarily spend less time reading and using computers,” Gwiazda said.

Health Tip: Sex During Pregnancy

Friday, October 3rd, 2008

While sexual intercourse throughout a healthy pregnancy is usually safe, it may not be recommended for women who are a higher risk for complications.

The Nemours Foundation says sex may not be safe for pregnant women with any of the following risk factors:

  • A history or risk of miscarriage.
  • Having had a previous birth that was pre-term (earlier than 37 weeks), or having warning signs of pre-term labor.
  • Vaginal bleeding, discharge or cramping that cannot be diagnosed.
  • Leaking amniotic fluid.
  • Conditions such as placenta previa and incompetent cervix.
  • Carrying multiple fetuses.

Can I eat devon when I’m pregnant?

Wednesday, August 6th, 2008

Yeah, so am I allowed to eat devon meat/sausage when I’m pregnant? If so, is there a limit?

you can eat what you like but devon and luncheon meat ie deli meats need to be cooked as they carry a bacteria called listeria which can harm the unborn baby its also found in other foods too. check out this website for more info
http://www.babycenter.com.au/pregnancy/a…

pregonurse 19weeks you need red meat for iron it does not cause blindness what sort of nurse are you? and where the hell did you get your info from?

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Devon and tomato sauce sandwiches have been 1 thing that I have craved since about 12 weeks. After hearing about listeria on lunch meats I asked my dr, and he said that it should be alright as long as I only ate a couple of sandwiches a day. He also told me that I should get a roll of devon and cut it myself, and only cut it as I needed it, rather than buying it pre-sliced from the deli or supermarket.

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Congrats!
Eat everything you want in moderation, that’s the secret.
Your baby needs protein to grow healthy even after it is born.
Make sure you don’t drink alcohol or smoke…Stay away from people that smoke!
Be sure to see your doctor and follow the docs advice.

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What do you do when your toddler wants to revert back to whining

Wednesday, August 6th, 2008


Before our daughter was born, he was great about using his words and speaking like a big boy. But lately, as in the last day or two, he’s reverted back to more whining and crying to communicate. I think he sees that his sister cries and whines to tell us what she needs and he thinks that is the way to communicate now to get our attention, *laughs*.

We remind him that big boys use words and babies whine/cry. When we say “Use your words”, he does, but we have to remind him a lot lately. He just seems to want to whine more than anything to tell us what he wants or needs. We understand it’s probably a phase, but is that a normal thing or what else could be going on here?

 

Sounds totally normal. It’s just an adjustment period with the new baby around and you’re right- his sister gets attention for screaming and crying, why shouldn’t he? This reminds me of a book we got from the library recently. If you haven’t read Kevin Henkes’s ‘Julius, Baby of the World’ it’s hilarious…it’s a kids’ book about a sister welcoming (sort of) her new baby brother and she goes through similar things. In particular she screams b/c it works for Julius but there are some parts that some parents who reviewed the book don’t love (she gets kinda sassy in the book) so you might change some verbage if you read it to your son (depending on his age).

You’re doing the right things though reminding him to use his words and being consistent about it. You might also tell him that the way the baby will learn to talk is to hear her big brother use big kid words and not whine as this will encourage him as well

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I forget how old your toddler is. It’s possible that he’s going through a toddler version of 12 month old tantrums. He could be reaching a higher emotional and mental level of awareness but isn’t able to express that yet. It’s possible that his emotions are just running at a higher level than his ability to express them. Since his emotions are so high and strong but his verbal abilities can’t keep up he whines and cries because it’s easier.

As an example, we had some friends living with us with their 3 year old. She was really independent when she wanted to be, but also was very high strung. When something didn’t work out the way she thought it would she would get really frustrated, especially with us adults. When we would try to help she would tell us out of frustration to leave her alone. If we left and went to do something else she would get more upset, but that wasn’t what she meant. She wanted us to be there with her but to let her do it by herself, but the only way she could communicate that was by telling us to leave her alone, even though she didn’t actually mean to leave her alone.

So, I’m pretty sure it’s normal. His verbal abilities just need to catch up to his feelings.

You get to change one thing in International Adoptions. What is it and why?

Wednesday, August 6th, 2008


When a nmother claims/proves that her child has been kidnapped that a thorough investigation is done and her child is returned. No excuses nor long drawn out court processes.
Kidnapping should never be tolerated nor supported whether the Aps knew directly or just heard it was happening but chose to ignore it. A centralized DNA bank will help speed up this process.

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I would change it to facilitate as much contact and info exchange as possible between the first family and the adoptive family and child as possible.

We maintain contact but our sons father cannot even afford basic pens and papers let alone international postage prices. It is against the law for us to provide him with these things (could be seen as payment for the child).

I think more contact with first families would prevent more fraud and also reveal more about what international adoption really is (both the good and the bad) to those in home countries.

Parents of Just ONE baby?

Thursday, July 24th, 2008


Do you ever feel bad for your little one being that he or she is the only child? My daughter is almost a year old and I see her playing all alone sometimes and it makes me feel really bad for her, She does get interaction with her cousins (who are around the same age) but not all the time, maybe once a week we see them.

We are not ready to have another child right now, but maybe it would be the right thing for everyone?

 

I have one child. It wasn’t really a choice for us (fertility issues).

Please do not feel that you need to give your baby a sibling so she can have a playmate.

At this age babies play alone anyway. They don’t really start interacting with other children until 2-3 years. (Before that it’s ‘parallel play’ and solitary play. Once she is old enough to want to play with other kids, you can look into any of a variety of activities — preschool, play groups, YMCA programs, toddler ’sports’, and so on. She will have ample time to be with other kids AND she will learn to entertain herself — which is a valuable skill.

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I can’t relate because I never have been nor will I ever be the mother of 1 child. I had twins first.

I can say that most children start out as only children and it’s just fine to have one child. If you don’t feel ready for another one right now then don’t feel like you should have another. They will be different ages anyway so it’s not like they will play together as though twins or cousins in the same age group would right away. When they’re older it will be different, but not now.

EDIT-Not true that babies can’t interact. My twins most certainly and absolutely have been interacting and playing together for a couple of months now. They play peek-a-boo a lot.

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We have one child and we made that choice. We don’t ever feel bad. He’s easily entertained and happy all the time..couldn’t ask for a better baby.. .when the time comes we will have plenty playdates and he will have buddies..

Mothers of twins.. or other breastfeeding moms…??

Friday, June 6th, 2008

I am wondering if I should breastfeed my twins.. I tried with my previous children, but I didn’t know much and didn’t have much support.. and didn’t stick it out due to the pain.. This is my last children and I kind of have the desire to breastfeed, but scared with there being 2 babies and it being a new experience to me… Anyone know where I can get info on breastfeeding twins.. anyone have experience doing it… ?? Help please!! Any advice.. comments.. links.. info.. is greatly appreciated.. Thank you!

 

i breastfed my boys for a few weeks. it was easy in the hospital. i had nurses there to help. i would get one latched and have a nurse hold him while i got the other latched. after i got home i couldnt keep them latched. by the time i got one on and started on the other the first one was off. its hard to do with only two hands. since it takes two hands at first to get a baby latched on and you have to support them. so needless to say after we got home and it was me and the kids it was impossible. i kept waiting for it to get better and it never did for me. not saying it wont be a good experience for you. it just wasnt for me. at first i felt bad that i wasnt able to do it but you have to realize it isnt very practical. no one should look down on you for not breastfeeding and if they do they obviously dont have a clue what its all about. i say give it a shot. you wont know until you try if its going to work for you. i do wish you the best of luck though!!!

i know the la lache league in my town has moms of multiples breastfeeding support books that they lend out. you may check into that or any other breastfeeding support group im sure would have something that would help.

i remember a site that i looked at while i was pregnant and it had all kinds of information on bf’ing twins…but i cant seem to find it now. ill keep looking and if i find it ill send it your way =)

What is the survival rate for 2 months pre mature babies?

Tuesday, October 16th, 2007

Survival rate for premature babies are a lot higher, now a days due to medical advancements.

Should parents continue to finance their children after the children are 18?

Wednesday, October 3rd, 2007

Maybe assist them, but not totally finance everything. There are too many negative side effects of doing that. **

There were a lot of children in my family, so we had to finance everything ourselves. I was working full time at age 15 just to buy clothing and shampoo. It was tough, but I don’t regret it, it gave me character. **

I think that things are definately different for children now… 100 years ago, 11 year old boys were running a farm — or at least doing a good share of the work. Now, I am happy if I can get my 11 year old son to pick up his socks and lower the toilet seat. Our expectaions for children have changed, lowered. As a result, they are living up to what we expect. **

I think one of the most important things we need to teach children is personal responsibilty. Children need to grow into adults that accept responsibilty for their actions. If they are always saying, “I am this way because of my circumstance” or “I am not this way because I wasn’t ever given a fair shot” they will never succeed. They need to learn that they are in charge of their own destiny. THey decide how their life will turn out. Events and circumstances may steer them one way or the other, but ultimately, they decide what and who they are going to become. If they can grasp this, then they can go on to provide for their families, emotionally and financially. They need to learn that success comes from how we treat others, not how much money we make. **